It is extremely hard to admit, “i’m still in love, but my ex is not

It is extremely hard to admit, “I’m still in love, but My ex is not.” And while you are not alone, it is little comfort to know that many people are also chanting, “I’m still in love, but My ex is not.” But are you sure? Have you actually asked?

She may have said so already, but that may only mean she was reacting to temporary feelings. When emotions run high, it is far too easy to say something one doesn’t really mean. She may have said it, but she may still have strong feelings for you.

It is not uncommon for people who still love each other to some extent to split up. So, just because you might be saying that your ex doesn’t love you, it might not necessarliy be true.

It is entirely possible that if you can say that you still love your ex, that she may be able to say it, as well. If this is true, then there is a good chance of resurrecting your relationship. Of course, it may not happen immediately and you certainly don’t want to rush her. But eventually, as time and space has caused her to realize how much she misses and truly does love you, reunion is possible.

Have you taken the time to figure out why, exactly, the two of you broke up in the first place? Did it come out of the blue, as a surprise to you? Was there something wrong in the relationship that you were unaware of? Then you know what you need to do next.

You must delve deep into the reasons why the break up happened. Figuring out what went wrong is the obvious course for preventing a recurrence. If it happens again, you will find yourself once again whining that you still love your ex.

Just figuring out what went wrong is not the cure to going from, “I’m still in love, but My ex is not,” to “I’m still in love. My ex is, also.” You’re going to have to make some changes, no doubt, and give your relationship time to heal itself. Getting back together does not necessarily mean that things will work from now on. Far from it. A resurgence of trust within the love you have for each other needs time to grow.

Just because you can say, “I’m still in love, and My ex wants to get back together,” does not mean it should happen, just like that. Both of you need to talk about what happened, in an effort to prevent it from happening again. Sessions with a certified counselor might be a good idea at this point.

If you both work hard on trying to come to grips with why the break up happened and really understand the dynamics, then you are laying the foundation for a stronger relationship for the future. Building a house on shifting sands is unwise, so is rebuilding a relationship on uncertain terms. Know what happened, discuss it, prepare for ways to prevent recurrence. In that way, you can both go from saying, “I’m still in love, but My ex is not,” to “We’re still in love and are happy to be together again.”

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