I have lost girlfriends in the past that meant a great deal to me

I have lost girlfriends in the past that meant a great deal to me. Just like many other people, I often wondered what I could do to get my ex back. I did not really figure it out until a few years ago. I was sitting around thinking about old relationships and how they had ended, when it dawned on me. There is this old saying, “keep them hungry and they will keep coming back for more.” This saying really applies to rekindling many relationships. And the concept of hunger is the topic of this article.

Let me tell you a story. There was this girl I dated when I was about 19-20 years old. I liked her OK, but as time went along she wanted to “experiment” with things I had no interest in doing. We began to have arguments over our differences in opinion. Although, we both cared for each other, our differences kept pulling us apart. And finally, she told me that she just wanted us to break up. According to her she wanted us to continue to “hang out” some. By this point, I was just tired of her in general. So, I did the obvious. I totally cut all contact with her. Since we lived in a small town it was hard for us not to be in the same area on a regular basis. She would see me out with friends and other women on a weekly basis. However, I kept my distance. We had not talked for a month or two and suddenly I get this letter from her. She is all upset because I have not been talking to her. She wants us to get together because she misses me. In no time flat we are back together.

The actual reasons she wanted to get back together may not be obvious from the story above. In fact, I have been thinking about this very situation for years and it never really dawned on me until something pointed the reasons out to me. But, it does follow completely the concepts it takes to rekindle a relationship. One concept I performed without even realizing it was to instill hunger to be with me in her. Remember, “keep them hungry and they will keep coming back for more.”

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