My boyfriend dumped me and i feel that my life has come to an end

My boyfriend dumped me and I feel that my life has come to an end.  Fortunately it hasn’t although it may seem like it has.  Your world has temporarily fallen apart leaving you emotionally pained, and your pride has suffered a little as well.  You will need some time to get over it and the important thing is that you do get over it.  Don’t forget that life always goes on after such a set back, and you must get yourself in condition to profit from it when your moment arrives.

How ever difficult it may be and however long it takes, you are going to have to put the past behind you.  You can’t stay moping in your corner for ever and the sooner you start picking yourself up and preparing to move on, the better.  So get started as soon as possible, as it will be difficult, but soon you will be pleased you made the effort.

If you are in a depression, you should not be afraid to seek medical assistance.  People in your situation often have this problem, so get proper help and ignore the remarks of others who may mean well but do not understand the problem.

Get advice from friends and family who can help you, and follow it.  If you don’t they will quickly tire of seeing you complaining yet doing nothing to get over your problems.

Think about how you would like your life to be and try to look at problems from several differing angles.  It may always appear very bleak; for the moment you have to seek out the good side of life.   Look at your qualities and all the positive things you have going for you and you can offer to someone.  That someone is always out there, and it is for you to seek him out.

Take on new activities that, in the past, you have never had time to do.  Keep yourself occupied whilst you learn something that is new to you.  Profit from meeting new people.  You will no longer be thinking of the past as you will not have the time!

People will start to notice how much happier you are and they will want to be around you.  Soon you will be grateful to the ex who dumped you as it has given you the chance to see other happiness in life.

I suggest you read an excellent book entitled “The Magic of Making Up” written by T ‘Dub’ Jackson, He has a lifetime of experience helping people, throughout the world, sort their relationship problems, and his book will likely help you to solve your own successfully.

Joe Bisley

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