Arguments are one of the most destructive things for a relationship, any relationship, and can ruin your marriage

Arguments are one of the most destructive things for a relationship, any relationship, and can ruin your marriage.

Have you ever found yourself being dragged in to an argument, saying things you wished you have not? have you been feeling that you are having the same arguments over and over again and that no matter how many times you are talking about the same thing is seems as if no one is listening?

While you read this article you will find a fast remedy to these scenarios and the feelings that they tend to cause.

Strategy one – Don’t argue, save it for later

  • This simple strategy itself can make a huge difference in your relationship. Whenever you start to feel uncomfortable during a discussion, and you fell that an argument is developing, stop I by saying “Let’s Talk about this later/tomorrow/an the weekend or some time else”
  • Come back to discuss the matter when you are in a good calm mood of just forget about it.

Strategy two – Priorities and Decision making procedure

  • Talk to each other, When both of you are in a good mood about your priorities and try to Determine a common decision making procedure and/or the general guidelines for decision making whenever there is a conflict 
  • Get used to these pre-maid decisions, stick to it and you will see that the amount and the tendency of arguments is decreasing (Especially about money! Which has been recognized as the number one factor for arguments between couples).

Strategy three – Don’t try to educate or lecture

  • No one likes to be educated or preached. Most of us tends to think highly on our selves, and oppose any attempt to undermine our judgment, and judgmental abilities.  
  • Don’t try to educate your partner (Or any one else that you are in a relation with) . These attempts to educate your partner “once and for all”, only heart his/her feelings and cause further problems or complications to the relationship. 
  • Instead, just talk about the one subject that you are dealing with now, Save the bog picture for later, when you will be discussing about your priorities.

If you will apply these simple strategies, with patience, you will soon find your self in a more calm and happy relation ship.

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Good luck, be patience, you can do it!

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