When a relationship begins breaking down, verbal war begins as a first sign

When a relationship begins breaking down, verbal war begins as a first sign. Old wounds are revisited and spoken about partners. Everything that was forgiven and forgotten suddenly gets a new life. This kind of behavior further complicates the situation.

The point that we wish to make is simple. Even if you have decided to break up, do not hurt your partner with your words. Take your own time to reflect upon things that are going wrong. Do not react immediately. We all are human beings and all of us make mistakes. Some of us make big mistakes while others make small mistakes. But none of us can say that they have never done anything wrong.

Do not add to the wrongs by fighting verbally with your partner with what you feel they did. They may not have done that at all! Are we serious- yes, we are very much serious. Sometimes we are wrong about our judgments. We think that the other person means something that hurt us, but the truth may be opposite.

Think, reflect and give time to the wounds to show the true nature. You will be filled with two kinds of thoughts- along with the hurt you received from your partner; you may also feel guilt about what all you said and did. Hitting other person for his/her wrongs is easier than hitting oneself for the mistakes one makes. Guilt is always overpowering emotion. You will not rest in peace unless the other person pardons you, you pardon yourself and are pardoned by God. But even after that the guilt may persist.

We are all human beings as we said. All of us make mistakes. Maybe our partner made much bigger mistakes than we did. But before blaming the other person let us think also about what we did. That may give us a new insight to the relationship. Hurt will not go away easily. But you will at least have some logical thinking in place because emotions always make us lose thinking power.

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