Surely most people would have experienced at the very least, one very powerful relationship in which the level of intimacy and understanding seems to be so perfect and out of this world

Surely most people would have experienced at the very least, one very powerful relationship in which the level of intimacy and understanding seems to be so perfect and out of this world. Just when you are so relaxed confident of the deep feelings and warmth that have come to characterize your relationship with your boyfriend, something snaps and your boyfriend becomes an ex. Some of the possible reasons for this sudden development include need for space by your ex, family problems and fear of commitments but to mention a few. So what do you do in this kind of situation? The following steps will help to make sense of the whole episode and guide to get your ex back intact. 1. It is okay to play a little hard to get to indicate that the break up was his loss and not yours. You should not lose your pride simply because your ex has chosen to abandon you for reasons that are very unclear to you. All the same since you still love him you will have to moderate your resistance to pave way for eventual reconciliation. 2. Now, if the break is due to his need for space, you would have to limit your communication with him to only some casual contact. Your text messages, your phone calls and your online conversations would have to be brief. Nonetheless, you can still use these contacts to subtly remind him of how he wants to be part of your life without smothering him with your presence. 3. If he is really interested in rekindling the relationship by indicating some interest in you again, grab this chance to reminisce with him. Focus on all the good and wonderful moments that you had together in the past. Take care not to bring up stories of bad experiences in the past which may nullify all the hard work that you have done. 4. If your ex boyfriend seems to be responding positively to your gestures and subtle advances then you should continually but gently work on him towards the mending of the relationship. If on the other hand, you notice that he truly needs to be left alone in peace and quiet to reflect the way forward, do oblige him by keeping away until such a suitable time that you notice that he is more amenable to resumption of your relationship. 5. When it becomes evident that your ex is sending unmistakable signals that he really feels something for you, feel free to reciprocate by opening up to him so that he knows how deep your feelings are for him. However, do not appear to be desperate as such attitude almost always brings about negative results and pushing your ex away from you. And if the signals are negative, that is, they are pointing to the opposite direction then you should keep off and allow things to work out naturally. 6. These steps, when, followed diligently stand you in good stead in recovering the love of your life and steadily rebuilding your relationship to higher levels of warmth, understanding, intimacy and tenderness.

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