When you have been through a breakup, it’s quite common to feel alone and sad

When you have been through a breakup, it’s quite common to feel alone and sad. You may feel like life isn’t worth living without your ex in your life. You may think that life is better with them in it. However, you need to ask yourself an all-important question: do you really want them back or is it pain and loneliness setting in to makes you feel the way you feel?

Being dumped can be very painful. You don’t know how to feel or act when you are suddenly on your own. Facing the big, bad world on your own may seem so scary to do that you’re likely want to seek out the one person who kept you safe. However, you have to make sure that it’s really worth going back for. After all, you don’t want to be in a relationship just because you are scared to be alone and don’t think you can make it on your own.

Does this need to not be alone meant you don’t love your ex? Not at all. It just basically means that while you need and love your ex, your ex may not feel the same way as you. You may find what you want in stability with someone other than your ex that could actually be much better than your ex too. You may not realize it but everybody is afraid of being alone and staying that way his or her entire life. When this happens, they’ll reach out to the one thing that made them feel completely safe even if it’s not the thing their heart really wants.

Not everyone is the same. While you may truly love your ex and want them back, other people just want the security the relationship has. If you believe you really love your ex, then it’s time to find a way to bring you two back together. However, determine for sure that you want your ex back before you do. You may end up causing them and yourself undue pain by not figuring this out first.

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