Do you still long to get back with your ex wife even after your divorce or separation

Do you still long to get back with your ex wife even after your divorce or separation? Do you still associate her with a many things in your life and terribly miss those happy moments that you spent with her? Well, this is a clear indication that you still love her and therefore, if you feel you are open for a relationship, then your ex-wife is the first person you must consider to date.

There is no need for devising an intricate plan to get back with your ex wife. Just ask yourself if you want to take a second chance with her – if the response to this question is in the affirmative, then here are a few useful strategies, which will help you to get back with your ex wife.

Do not plead and beg
Perhaps the worst thing to do to win back the love of your ex is to plead and beg for forgiveness and a second chance to prove your love. Women inherently like strong men, who can protect them. They hate it when a man with a weak disposition approaches them with a proposal for marriage. Therefore, never plead or beg in front of your ex in order to persuade her to come back to you. Instead, you must project yourself as a strong person, who appears to be emotionally well-balanced, confident and calm even during periods of crisis.

Remain socially active
Socialize actively and make your presence felt everywhere that she goes. Your ex must feel the pangs and repent for not being together with you as a couple. She must start missing you and yearn for your vibrant company.

Analyze what went wrong
You need to do some amount of introspection into your relationship – why did you and your wife get separated or divorced? Note the probable causes for the break-up and assess how you may have contributed to the whole thing. Ask yourself if you are ready to make adjustments and bring about some changes in your nature or not. Unless you are ready to do so, you are bound to have a similar devastating break-up in the near-future. So, before you get back with your ex wife, get prepared to admit your mistakes and make a vow to change yourself for the sake of your relationship.

Look for ways to nurture your relationship
Keep communicating with your ex wife occasionally and if she hints at a meeting, do grab the opportunity. Go to meet her with your emotions under control. You must not be judgmental or start the blame game at all, because this will only lead to misunderstandings and trouble for your relationship. Put back your egoism and do not get into power tussles with her. Do not use past incidences between the two of you as examples to make your point. Bury the unpleasant past and begin your relationship afresh.

As the meetings becomes more frequent, you must try to inculcate qualities such as mutual respect, love, mutual understanding, and trust if you want the bonding between the two of you to grow strong. These qualities are considered to be essential ingredients for a long and happy relationship. So, try to inculcate them in yourself if you want to get back with your ex wife.

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