There is a common conflict that happens in many relationships

There is a common conflict that happens in many relationships.  You as the women really like your boyfriend, but find out that your family doesn’t seem to like him as much as you do.  You get caught in the middle of all of this between the guy that you really like and what your family expects of you.  What can you do if this happens to you where your family really doesn’t like your boyfriend?

The first thing that you should do is listen to your family’s concerns.  What are the things that they see in your boyfriend that are bad?  Try to figure out what these concerns are and really try to objectively listen to them.  If there are not any real reasons, there could be another issue.  Your family might not want to let go of their only child or their only daughter.  
Defend your boyfriend with any concerns about his character.  Talk about the times that he has been respectful and loving towards you.  It’s possible that telling your family how your boyfriend treats you might help.  Your family just wants you to be with someone that treats you right and makes you happy.

If there is still conflict, give your relationship with your boyfriend some time before making it more serious.  This will make your family feel better about it especially if you are still at odds about who he is.  Be sure that you are clear with your family about your intentions if the relationship continues to get more serious.

If your boyfriend is overly critical of everyone in your family, it’s possible that your family might be right about him.  If you are getting criticisms from both sides, this is a very uncomfortable situation.  Ask him to be more supportive of you as opposed to making you feel stuck in the middle of it all.

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