Everyone has someone in their past that they have ended a relationship with and then later regretted it

Everyone has someone in their past that they have ended a relationship with and then later regretted it. Or that person ended things with them and they wanted another chance. At times the opportunity for a second chance relationship comes up between the two. A second chance relationship is one where the first time around failed for whatever reasons and now months sometimes even years later both parties are interested in trying things over. This can be a great thing for some people. For other people it can be a disaster.

Whether they were reintroduced through a random Internet encounter or they were met again through mold and mutual acquaintances chances are they will see in each other what drew them together in the first place. Second chance relationships are not always cursed things as for many people it was just not an optimal time for them to be in a given relationship. Work, school, family issues, etc could all make a negative impact on what would otherwise be a healthy and fruitful relationship. Sometimes it is no one’s fault why a relationship ended but with second chance relationships the thing to be aware of is why it ended. If it was the fault of one or both parties it would behoove both parties to really examine the reasons that they are no longer together as well as what put them in a position to begin things anew.

This is important to do because both parties need to be sure of where they stand. There is no point in beginning again if you will only fall into the same traps and pitfalls as before. This is where the potential relationship may seek outside help. Friends and family are not the best choice for this, as they will be biased in their feelings. They will look at the new relationship through the tainted lenses of the last failed one. And although their warnings should be listened to and perhaps filed away, they are not the best options.

An impartial observer on both party’s parts would be a better choice. A matchmaker would be a perfect person to see for this. They will not be affiliated with either parties and therefore can listen and take in the tale of the earlier relationship with open ears and no biases. After they can look over things and advise the couple on whether they would be best suited to pursue a relationship or if, in their professional opinion the whole affair is doomed from the door.

A matchmaker is by no means infallible and can only offer help and advice based on their own years of professional experience. Second chance relationships are not always doomed to failure and there is no reason why the mistakes of the past need be committed again. Getting a second opinion is a great way to ensure that both parties are entering into a second chance relationship with newly opened eyes and a desire to really make it work the second time around.

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