After having invested a lot of time and energy in your relationship, your girlfriend wants a break up out of the blue, what do you do

After having invested a lot of time and energy in your relationship, your girlfriend wants a break up out of the blue, what do you do? Such sad situations are common with many men out there, so if you are thinking of methods to get your ex girlfriend back, here are some helpful ways you would definitely want to consider. You must know how to win a girl back to get your ex back right now.

You should first start by reflecting about all that has happened in your relationship. Ask yourself the right questions and answer them honestly. If possible, seek help from those around you to get additional perspective on the whole situation.

Do not jump into trying to get back with your ex girlfriend just yet. Just think for a moment: why did she want a break up in the first place? Have things improved since then? If you realize that nothing has changed in your life, then it is highly likely that you will not be able to get the long lasting relationship you want even if you do get back together, as the same problems that caused the break up will probably occur again.

Next, ask yourself if getting back together is what your ex girlfriend wants. Do you still feel that the love between the two of you exists? Put yourself in her shoes and see if you are what she looks for in a partner. Conversely, think about whether she is the right one for you. If you feel that you would not be happy being in a relationship with her, then perhaps a break up is indeed the best choice for the both of you. As the saying goes, “there are many fishes in the sea”, and if you look hard enough, you’ll definitely be able to find someone better suited for you, eventually.

After making all the above considerations, if you still want your ex back, then you are now ready to take action. Understanding what it takes for a relationship to survive will enable you be better prepared to prevent any further break ups.

Firstly, give your ex some time to cool off. Don’t just call her immediately. Give her some time and space to cool off. Allow her to start missing you first.

Next, after perhaps a couple of days, give your ex a call and invite her out to a nice dinner and make her feel special. Let her know how much you love her and remind her of the special times the both of you had experienced together. Subtly, you may suggest ways in which the two of you can make the relationship work this time round. Do not neglect the sweet little details you used to look into when the both of you were still dating in the past. This will definitely touch her heart and remind her of how she fell in love with you.

When you are together with her, try to make her laugh and subtly indicate to her how much you love her through small, thoughtful actions. Keep your negative emotions under control and project a strong, positive image of yourself. Remember, the way in which you handle matters indicate to her your level of maturity and ability to go through tough times together as a couple.

But remember: don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Sincerity is what counts in making a relationship work.

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