Breaking up is difficult as it is, but if it happens because you discovered your lover was cheating on you, it is even more troublesome

Breaking up is difficult as it is, but if it happens because you discovered your lover was cheating on you, it is even more troublesome. Maybe they had reasons for doing so, but this does not mean that you feel less angered or less jealous because of that. If you are willing to give your partner a second chance, and consider that getting back with an ex is the thing you need, take into consideration the following aspects in order to avoid a repeated bad experience.

Bring Forward Your Doubts

You want to believe them, but each time they say the cheating incident was that nothing but a moment of temporary insanity, something does not ring so true. Talk to them honestly about your feelings, and explain why you feel the need for them to prove themselves being the same loyal partner from before the infidelity accident. It is their responsibility to do so, and do not hesitate to demand such a thing from them.

Rebuilding the Lost Trust

Rebuilding lost trust is one of the most difficult things to do, if infidelity was the ground for breaking up. You will have to give your lover some credit, if you want to be happy again. You have to ask for some proof of their fidelity, but do not turn paranoid, as it will push them away in the end, if they see there is nothing they can do to make you trust them again. Ask them where they go and whom they are seeing, but do not control every moment of their day.

Bury the Hatch

Yes, they did you wrong, but do not turn this into a weapon to be used whenever you feel like it. If you are not ready for getting back with an ex, admit it, especially to yourself. This will only bring more unhappiness and distrust between you and them, so make sure you are ready to bury the hatch in order to make things work.

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