Has someone you loved cheated on you

Has someone you loved cheated on you? If you are lucky, that hasn’t happened, as it’s a really horrid experience. The harm it could do to self worth and confidence are inestimable, and getting back with ex lovers who’ve cheated is quite a painful task.

You will be continually reviewing the events inside your head, trying to think of what you might have done to cause this. And you know what? I believe that the real reason is not what you think.

Even though you hear it straight from the cheating horses mouth.

If you’ve ever watched a show like Jerry Springer, what are the sorts of things that cheaters say are the reasons they’ve cheated.

You weren’t around when I needed you. You spent too much time at your job. You don’t love me any more etc, etc.

It’s as though they’re putting the blame on the innocent party. The major downside to that is that people who have been cheated on may think it’s their fault in the first place. Entering into a relationship with someone else is making an agreement with that person, and if you’ve agreed to be exclusive, going with someone else is unethical and unacceptable.

The No1 reason that partners are unfaithful, is this:

They want some exciting sex Simple as that.

In any long-term relationship the spark might not be as bright as it was at the beginning. As reasonable adults we must accept that and make the effort, without looking elsewhere for an response to animal lust. But, you have something even better – love.

In my opinion, love is more rewarding by a mile than just sex. It’s about weighing up what you have to lose.

For those of you that are thinking of getting back with ex partners who’ve cheated on you, just picture this one thing…

Is the REAL reason they cheated going to disappear?

If not, you are better off without them.

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