Before you run back with open arms, make sure you are choosing your best option

Before you run back with open arms, make sure you are choosing your best option. When a relationship ends, you may feel an overwhelming urge to get things back the way they were. You probably still have feelings for your ex and wan to reenter your ‘comfort zone’ of having them in your life. Before going back with an ex, ask yourself, is this a good solution?

Need is not Good

If you feel as though you need your ex in order to survive, then you may be better off alone. A strong dependency on another person is not healthy. This could also indicate some of the issues that brought about the breakup in the first place. Instead, experience life without your ex for a while before making any fast decisions.

Learn about Yourself

Some people feel that they are lesser if they do not have a significant other. Make sure you allow some time to learn about yourself before going back with an ex. You are a human being with weaknesses and strengths, just like anyone else. You are no less valuable because you are not with your ex. Once you learn this, then you are ready to become involved in another person’s life.

Can you Overcome the Issues?

You probably have some idea what the issues were in your relationship. Think back and consider what life would be like with your ex again. Are these issues things you can both come to terms with and get past? If not, then you are better off working on mending your broken heart now rather than setting yourself up for another broken heart later.

Are you and Your Ex Really Good for Each Other?

When you were together, did you feel like you and your ex supported each other equally? Was having him or her in your life a positive thing? If your ex was very troublesome when you were together, it could be a hint you are better off without them! Painful as it may sound, you need to focus on finding happiness with someone who is a positive influence in your life.

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