If you want your relationship to at its best, you need to nurture it and respect your partner all the time

If you want your relationship to at its best, you need to nurture it and respect your partner all the time. A relationship can be quite fragile, so don’t treat it badly, as it can easily unravel.

Both you and your partner need to contribute to the health of your relation and give value to one another. If the relationship is not balanced, and only one of you gives, chances are that it will not last, or one of you will be very unhappy. Usually, when a relationship breaks, only one of you will initiate it, while the other one will fight it. If you’re the one trying to maintain your bond, it can be quite hard, but you can still try to save it.

Try to be strong

One thing you should avoid at all costs is being needy. Clinging, begging and other types of desperate behavior will probably just repel your partner. Attraction doesn’t quite seem to show up when you see your partner desperate and clingy. Yes, it can be hard to go through a break-up, but you shouldn’t start to cry and yell because of it.

Minimize the contact

You might think that it’s not a good idea to communicate less when your relationship is in trouble, but I consider it a very good step. Things got bad for a reason, so you need the break to take place, at least for some time.

You need enough time to think about it, to evaluate where you are and where your partner is. Your ex also gets the chance to think about your relationship. It’s possible that she will realize that your relationship is important to her.

Be Flexible

Don’t start getting tough with your ex. Don’t kick her out of the house and don’t tell her to get all her clothes from your house. Scaring someone will not make her come back to you. You should keep in mind that you have relationship problems because your ex wasn’t satisfied with at least some part of your relationship.

You need to sympathize with her and listen to what she has to say. Nobody’s saying that you should do everything she wants, as they can be unreasonable demands, but you should at least listen and keep an open mind.

Get Out

In a time like this, people shouldn’t be on their own. Get your friends to come over and go with you in the town, for some fun. Entertain yourself in other ways than you previously did. I’m not saying that you should date other women, but try to have some fun.

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