You have both decided it is time for a second chance

You have both decided it is time for a second chance.  You may be completely overjoyed, or perhaps skeptical. Regardless, you must be careful or risk ruining a good thing. If you want to know how to get back together with your ex so that you both can be happy, read on for three relationship-saving tips.

Tip #1-Slow and Steady

Remember to take things slow. Just because you had few boundaries before, possibly lived together, does not mean you are ready for that now. Something happened to ruin what you once had.  Although you are working to breathe new life into the situation, you want to do it differently. The last time did not end well, so avoid a repeat!

Instead, knock things back a few rungs on the relationship ladder. Start with a few dates if you must. Make sure you are not following the same path to destruction as the last time around.  Tread new ground so you can both have a fresh, healthy start!

Tip #2-Leaving the Past Where it Belongs

You may have said things you did not mean last time around. Things may have happened to cause hurt feelings. You must learn to forgive and forget and move on. If you find yourself or your partner constantly unearthing those old gripes, then maybe you are not ready for a reunion.  You must be prepared to forgive and forget if you want to move forward.

If you do notice a lot of old arguments cropping up, it is time for a re-evaluation. You should sit down and discuss the problem. It is possible there may be something unresolved that lingers between you. That single thing could start to create a rift and ruin your relationship yet again!

Tip #3-Make Sure You are Both on Board

A relationship takes two people to build and to break. That means both of you must be on board and willing to put in the effort to make things work. If only one side is truly striving to rebuild, then the relationship is doomed to fail.  Before you discuss how to get back together with your ex, you must dispel doubt on both sides.

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